We Left the City and Never Ever Looked Back

You're not alone if you ever dream of a fresh start in the country. Hear what it resembles from three households who really made the leap.
Who hasn't dreamed of dumping city life and moving to the nation? Maybe you have actually spent weekend trips flipping through the local genuine estate listings, baffled by how far a dollar can stretch: A farmhouse (with acreage!) for what a walkup studio would cost in the city?

In 2012, I made the jump, moving from Seattle to a little summer season town in Maine. I began photographing these people and interviewing them about their triumphs and obstacles in transitioning to nation living. The job took flight immediately-- plainly I wasn't the only one believing about leaving the city.

Don't take it from me, however. Hear it from these 3 households who left the city behind for a clean slate.

Photography by Alissa Hessler. You can read more profiles like these on Urban Exodus and in her book Ditch the City and Go Nation.



Kenzie and Shawn Fields
When a family of New Yorkers discovered an eccentric home in the Berkshires at a third the expense of their city coop, they figured it was fate.
Moved from: New York City City, pop. 8.5 million
Kenzie and Shawn Fields were living in what the majority of New York families would think about a dream situation-- a three-bedroom coop apartment or condo in a preferable Brooklyn neighborhood. To afford living in the city, though, both Kenzie and Shawn had to work long hours.

When Kenzie's moms and dads relocated to the Berkshires, a creative hub in the mountains of Massachusetts, the Fields family came for a check out and started imagining leaving the city behind. The couple desired to offer their kids a youth immersed in nature and access to excellent public schools. "It seemed like an inspired concept," keeps in mind Shawn. "However when I thought of all the unknowns and worries, rationally it was a bad concept given that what we had in the city was actually excellent." When they came across their storybook 1756 home while casually looking at real estate listings, however, they felt that fate was pressing their hand. "On what I believed was a lark, we looked at a house in a town with a great little school," states Shawn. "The home mortgage on the home was about a third of our home's home mortgage. That go to sealed the deal."

Moved to: New Marlborough, Mass., pop. 1,509
Shawn and Kenzie took a leap of faith and moved their family to New Marlborough. "Living in a town in the country was an excellent answer for us," states Kenzie. "We're steps from a post workplace, library, vehicle mechanic and a basic store. We live across from a hurrying creek, which is comforting. There's no deafening rural silence. Rural does not need to mean large and empty."

Rather of continuing to strive to further the careers of other artists, the couple decided to focus their efforts on structure Shawn's fine-art organisation. Quiting their stable city earnings while handling the expenses of winter season heating and taking care of an old home hasn't been a cakewalk, but they can't picture going back to the cramped confines of city living.

Entering their home is like walking into one of Shawn's narrative paintings. On a common day, their child, Honey, might greet you in the lawn with an animal rabbit, their child Peter may follow you around with his brass trumpet, and their other son Odie might offer to carry out a magic technique. They have actually gotten crafty-- repurposing wood, windows and thrifted treasures to transform their cottage into a cozy, quirky wonderland.

The kids have much more flexibility to explore now-- they spend hours playing in the creek by their home and offering at the library down the street. And they've all discovered, says Kenzie, that "the chance to care is more present when you run out the overwhelming scale of a city. When my mom died, people we didn't understand well left entire meals on our porch."

They enjoy the natural setting of their new life, states Kenzie. "Playing charades with our neighbors, heating with wood, the animals, library pie sales, town hall conferences.

Richard Blanco
A Cuban-American poet found the peaceful he requires to write-- plus a sense of belonging-- in a small Maine town.
Moved from: San Antonio, Texas
At President Obama's 2nd inauguration in 2013, Richard Blanco's reading of his poem One Today influenced the country. What most individuals do not know is that, looking back, he's not sure he would have been able to write the poem if he had not been restricted to his writing desk, surrounded by pine forests piled high with snow, up on a mountainside in his new house in St Louis, Missouri.

Prior to this page moving to Maine, Richard lived the majority of his life in San Antonio. In 2012, he was working as a civil engineer and writing in his extra time when his partner, Mark, got a task that needed the couple to transfer to the tiny ski town of St Louis, Missouri. Although Richard was a little concerned in the beginning, he was delighted at the possibility of leaving the traffic and sound of city life and having the chance to compose more.

And he now understands that living in the country was a natural for him. "I believe I have actually always desired to move to the country," he states. Most of my household is from rural areas in Cuba, and I felt extremely at home there."

Relocated to: St Louis, Missouri
Richard and Mark didn't know how this village would receive them, but they have actually been pleasantly shocked. St Louis has invited "the gay couple from San Antonio," as they were described for a while, with open arms. Richard is a highly regarded member of the neighborhood and-- because the inauguration-- a town celeb.

"After that honeymoon stage, the very first thing that began to scold on me was having to drive everywhere," says Richard. He also misses out on the privacy of city life: "There is no such thing as simply a waiter in St Louis. You know their entire life, and you understand their kids, where they grew up ... and they know everything about you.

"After a year of battling the components, I had to make decisions about where to stop landscaping and let nature take over," states Richard. "I got a little brought away and made these mounds of work for myself and ended up not enjoying what I originally came here for.

After relocating to the country, Richard at first continued to work remotely on agreement engineering tasks, but the more affordable expense of living in Maine enabled him to move focus and prioritize his poetry. And since 2013, he's been able to work nearly entirely as a writer, leaving his engineering profession behind. He has actually composed two many poems and award-winning memoirs. He has taught composing workshops all over the world and simply completed his very first fine-press book, Boundaries. Several weeks before he made the journey to DC for the 2013 inauguration, he famously practiced his poem to an audience of snowmen in his front lawn.

He offers the location where he lives a great deal of credit for all this. Life in the country has given him area and time to concentrate on his writing. And possibly more significantly, it has finally given him a location that seems like home.

Joe and Ashley Duggers
A surprise business challenge turned these Silicon Valley business owners into a family of rural ranchers.
Moved from: Sacramento, California
A few years earlier, Joe and Ashley Duggers owned and ran 11 companies in the Silicon Valley city of Sacramento: a learning center, a maker area, a flower designer store and a play area for toddlers, simply to name a couple of. All this in addition to raising four ladies under the age of six. They valued their busy, complete lives but worried that the abundance of Silicon Valley would give their children a skewed point of view on the world.

In 2010, they opened a farm-to-table restaurant called Bumble however struggled to source morally raised meat. This led them to a new possible venture-- running a livestock cattle ranch that could supply meat to their dining establishment. They toured the Sharps Gulch Ranch in the meadow river valley of Fort Jones, California, a short drive from the Oregon border. From here, it was a six-hour drive down I-5 to Silicon Valley, but without the ridiculous sticker cost of land more detailed to the Bay Location. The property had two homes, one a historical Victorian in desperate requirement of repair and one a cozy two-bedroom cabin. They jumped in and bought the home in 2013, hoping to one day find a way to move to the ranch full-time.

Relocated to: Fort Jones, California, pop. 688
"We always had a desire to raise our kids in large open spaces in a more rural community," states Ashley. "Joe grew up on a farm and hoped we 'd get back to the land one day. We offered our companies and moved up the day our earliest child finished kindergarten and have actually been all-in ever since."

After four years of difficult work, the Duggers have actually developed an effective pasture-raised meat service. Looking for more methods to make a living off the land, this year they released 5 Ashley Retreats, where they host ladies at their hillside cattle ranch camp for a weekend of farm chores and cooking classes.

There are no weekends or holidays off, but they spend much more time together as a household now, working along with one another. The Duggers do not have the conveniences, clean clothes or spare time they had in their previous life, and have actually needed to become more self-sufficient: "In the city, I might get anything done at the drop of a hat," states Ashley. "But in the country, I have actually had to adjust my expectations. Whatever moves a bit more slowly, however surviving on a ranch suggests you can develop anything you can imagine yourself, which is more gratifying than employing someone to do it."

Another payoff is seeing their women grow into courageous, hardworking and independent free-range women. At the end of a long day, when the animals are fed, Ashley and Joe love to mix a cocktail, put a Five Ashley roast in the oven and sit on their front porch to watch their daughters run free in the yard.

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